{"id":2100,"date":"2016-11-23T00:00:06","date_gmt":"2016-11-23T05:00:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sites.udmercy.edu\/mission-and-identity\/?p=2100"},"modified":"2019-09-18T16:47:30","modified_gmt":"2019-09-18T20:47:30","slug":"nov-23-the-day-before-us-thanksgiving","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sites.udmercy.edu\/poetry\/2016\/11\/23\/nov-23-the-day-before-us-thanksgiving\/","title":{"rendered":"Nov 23  &#8212; the day before US Thanksgiving"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Wednesday, November 23<\/p>\n<p>Most years, I welcome the Wednesday before Thanksgiving by fasting from the alarm clock. \u00a0Instead of 5:40 am, I eased out of sleep at 9:20 or so. \u00a0Now it\u2019s 10:37, Detroit Bold Colombian \u00a0Espresso coffee brewed. \u00a0If the day behaves the way I\u2019ve come to expect, \u00a0it won\u2019t require hurrying. \u00a0&#x1f33b;&#x1f60a;<\/p>\n<p>Instead of a poem, today\u2019s post is a short, short-story by Palestinian-American poet and writer, Naomi Shihab Nye. \u00a0A soul friend sent it to me last week; \u00a0it tells of fear and kindness and laughter. \u00a0 I don\u2019t usually think of reading short stories out loud, even short, short-stories. \u00a0However, at the end of the story you will find a link to the author\u2019s reading. \u00a0 She is a great, not just good, reader. \u00a0It\u2019s worth the 4 minutes &amp; 12 seconds.<\/p>\n<p>I hope you find reading \u201cGate A-4\u201d a warm-up for these days of gratitude.<\/p>\n<p>john st sj<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Today\u2019s Post: \u00a0 &#8220;Gate A-4&#8221;\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Wandering around the Albuquerque Airport Terminal, after learning<br \/>\nmy flight had been delayed four hours, I heard an announcement:<br \/>\n&#8220;If anyone in the vicinity of Gate A-4 understands any Arabic, please<br \/>\ncome to the gate immediately.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Well\u2014one pauses these days. Gate A-4 was my own gate. I went there.<\/p>\n<p>An older woman in full traditional Palestinian embroidered dress, just<br \/>\nlike my grandma wore, was crumpled to the floor, wailing. &#8220;Help,&#8221;<br \/>\nsaid the flight agent. &#8220;Talk to her. What is her problem? We<br \/>\ntold her the flight was going to be late and she did this.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I stooped to put my arm around the woman and spoke haltingly.<br \/>\n&#8220;Shu-dow-a, Shu-bid-uck Habibti? Stani schway, Min fadlick, Shu-bit-<br \/>\nse-wee?&#8221; The minute she heard any words she knew, however poorly<br \/>\nused, she stopped crying. She thought the flight had been cancelled<br \/>\nentirely. She needed to be in El Paso for major medical treatment the<br \/>\nnext day. I said, &#8220;No, we&#8217;re fine, you&#8217;ll get there, just later, who is<br \/>\npicking you up? Let\u2019s call him.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>We called her son, I spoke with him in English. I told him I would<br \/>\nstay with his mother till we got on the plane and ride next to<br \/>\nher. She talked to him. Then we called her other sons just<br \/>\nfor the fun of it. Then we called my dad and he and she spoke for a while<br \/>\nin Arabic and found out of course they had ten shared friends. Then I<br \/>\nthought just for the heck of it why not call some Palestinian poets I know<br \/>\nand let them chat with her? This all took up two hours.<\/p>\n<p>She was laughing a lot by then. Telling of her life, patting my knee,<br \/>\nanswering questions. She had pulled a sack of homemade mamool<br \/>\ncookies\u2014little powdered sugar crumbly mounds stuffed with dates and<br \/>\nnuts\u2014from her bag\u2014and was offering them to all the women at the gate.<br \/>\nTo my amazement, not a single woman declined one. It was like a<br \/>\nsacrament. The traveler from Argentina, the mom from California, the<br \/>\nlovely woman from Laredo\u2014we were all covered with the same powdered<br \/>\nsugar. And smiling. There is no better cookie.<\/p>\n<p>And then the airline broke out free apple juice from huge coolers and two<br \/>\nlittle girls from our flight ran around serving it and they<br \/>\nwere covered with powdered sugar, too. And I noticed my new best friend\u2014<br \/>\nby now we were holding hands\u2014had a potted plant poking out of her bag,<br \/>\nsome medicinal thing, with green furry leaves. Such an old country tradi-<br \/>\ntion. Always carry a plant. Always stay rooted to somewhere.<\/p>\n<p>And I looked around that gate of late and weary ones and I thought, This<br \/>\nis the world I want to live in. The shared world. Not a single person in that<br \/>\ngate\u2014once the crying of confusion stopped\u2014seemed apprehensive about<br \/>\nany other person. They took the cookies. I wanted to hug all those other women, too.<\/p>\n<p>This can still happen anywhere.<\/p>\n<p>Not everything is lost.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Naomi Shihab Nye<br \/>\nMarch 12, 1952<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/sites.udmercy.edu\/poetry\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/170\/2016\/11\/Naomi-Shihab-Nye.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-2101\" src=\"https:\/\/sites.udmercy.edu\/poetry\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/170\/2016\/11\/Naomi-Shihab-Nye.jpg\" alt=\"naomi-shihab-nye\" width=\"157\" height=\"157\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sites.udmercy.edu\/poetry\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/170\/2016\/11\/Naomi-Shihab-Nye.jpg 157w, https:\/\/sites.udmercy.edu\/poetry\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/170\/2016\/11\/Naomi-Shihab-Nye-150x150.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 157px) 100vw, 157px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>From\u00a0<em>Honeybee<\/em>. Copyright \u00a9 2008 by Naomi Shihab Nye.<br \/>\nNaomi Shihab Nye\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=HwDXJ50U22o\">reading\u00a0\u201cGate A-4&#8243;<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Naomi_Shihab_Nye\">https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Naomi_Shihab_Nye<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Wednesday, November 23 Most years, I welcome the Wednesday before Thanksgiving by fasting from the alarm clock. \u00a0Instead of 5:40 am, I eased out of sleep at 9:20 or so. \u00a0Now it\u2019s 10:37, Detroit Bold Colombian \u00a0Espresso coffee brewed. \u00a0If &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/sites.udmercy.edu\/poetry\/2016\/11\/23\/nov-23-the-day-before-us-thanksgiving\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":139,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[11641],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sites.udmercy.edu\/poetry\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2100"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sites.udmercy.edu\/poetry\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sites.udmercy.edu\/poetry\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sites.udmercy.edu\/poetry\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/139"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sites.udmercy.edu\/poetry\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2100"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/sites.udmercy.edu\/poetry\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2100\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2102,"href":"https:\/\/sites.udmercy.edu\/poetry\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2100\/revisions\/2102"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sites.udmercy.edu\/poetry\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2100"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sites.udmercy.edu\/poetry\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2100"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sites.udmercy.edu\/poetry\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2100"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}