{"id":3015,"date":"2019-05-03T00:00:03","date_gmt":"2019-05-03T04:00:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sites.udmercy.edu\/mission-and-identity\/?p=3015"},"modified":"2019-09-18T16:43:29","modified_gmt":"2019-09-18T20:43:29","slug":"may-3-what-it-means-to-be-catholic-when-youre-a-young-liberal-feminist","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sites.udmercy.edu\/poetry\/2019\/05\/03\/may-3-what-it-means-to-be-catholic-when-youre-a-young-liberal-feminist\/","title":{"rendered":"May 3 &#8212;  &#8220;what it means to be Catholic when you\u2019re a young liberal feminist . . . &#8220;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Pre-note:<\/p>\n<p>In the last three decades or so, a new theory for identifying \u00a0human life on an archaeological site treats the organic remains of flowers at a burial site as more compelling evidence of humanity than finding tools on the site.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Beauty offered to treat someone who has died as beautiful and sacred may run more deeply human than the ability to set goals and marshal resources to achieve them. \u00a0This early May weekend will bring some citizens from our university community of learning on Six Mile and Livernois across the state to St. Joseph where we will cherish one of our Robotics Engineering students, Miles Kelleher. \u00a0He left us, and his young life, last Saturday. We will drive, carrying with us our love for Miles, to join other student and teacher friends, and his family, in this deep goodbye. \u00a0The drive, the stories we will tell and listen to today and tomorrow, are beautiful deeply human; \u00a0perhaps we can imagine the stories as the flowers we bring to say, with their beauty, that Miles\u2019 beauty will endure and travel our lives with us.<\/p>\n<p>Today\u2019s Post<\/p>\n<p>Today poem was written by another of our students and posted here last August. \u00a0It evoked more email comments than any of the nearly 700 posts since the list began in September 2013. \u00a0The beauty of Maria Ibarra\u2019s language and cadence has stayed in my imagination all this year. \u00a0As I post her words again, I \u00a0imagine them as flowers brought to Mile\u2019s place in the world.<\/p>\n<p>Best to read the poem out loud, with pauses. \u00a0 May these next days bless you.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>john sj<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Today\u2019s Post \u00a0Maria Ibarra Frayre<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Friday, May 3, 2019<br \/>\n\u201cBut how can they believe me?<\/p>\n<p>When sometimes I don\u2019t even believe myself.<br \/>\nMaybe it\u2019s time to be loud.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>*****<\/p>\n<p>*****<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBeing Catholic\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I wear my faith quietly,<\/p>\n<p>like a pebble in your pocket<\/p>\n<p>Smooth and cold,<\/p>\n<p>Comforting when you hold it tight in your hand.<\/p>\n<p>But to be more honest,<\/p>\n<p>I wear my faith secretly, cautious of who<\/p>\n<p>to tell the truth because<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not sure how my circle<\/p>\n<p>of liberal, leftists, almost<\/p>\n<p>socialists would take it.<\/p>\n<p>How could I, a feminist who uses reason,<\/p>\n<p>logic, and kindness, follow a church<\/p>\n<p>that doesn\u2019t let women be leaders?<\/p>\n<p>Follow a God<\/p>\n<p>who believes LGBTQ loved ones will rot in hell?<\/p>\n<p>follow an institution<\/p>\n<p>that rapes children?<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Stop.<\/p>\n<p>I want to tell them that<\/p>\n<p>that isn\u2019t my church, isn\u2019t my God.<\/p>\n<p>My God lives in jails and detention centers,<\/p>\n<p>in water bottles left in the desert,<\/p>\n<p>and school teachers who work too much for too little.<\/p>\n<p>My God is in parents who love their gay<\/p>\n<p>and trans kids as reflections<\/p>\n<p>of God\u2019s own image.<\/p>\n<p>My faith is the holiness of women, the life<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/sites.udmercy.edu\/poetry\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/170\/2018\/08\/SidewalkChalk.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-2734\" src=\"https:\/\/sites.udmercy.edu\/poetry\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/170\/2018\/08\/SidewalkChalk.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"320\" height=\"217\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sites.udmercy.edu\/poetry\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/170\/2018\/08\/SidewalkChalk.jpg 320w, https:\/\/sites.udmercy.edu\/poetry\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/170\/2018\/08\/SidewalkChalk-300x203.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 320px) 100vw, 320px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>in service for others.<\/p>\n<p>My God is liberation.<\/p>\n<p>She is the power of the storm<\/p>\n<p>and the stillness of it when it\u2019s over.<\/p>\n<p>She is Brown laborers<\/p>\n<p>rebuilding a city,<\/p>\n<p>and the sweat of their foreheads<\/p>\n<p>feeding their families.<\/p>\n<p>But how can they believe me? When<\/p>\n<p>sometimes I don\u2019t even believe myself.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe it\u2019s time to be loud.<\/p>\n<p>As loud as the annoying (and wrong) fetus<\/p>\n<p>fanatics who are pro-life without<\/p>\n<p>really being pro-living.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe it\u2019s time to let my faith breathe. Take<\/p>\n<p>my pebble and let throw it<\/p>\n<p>in the water.<\/p>\n<p>Let it make ripples.<\/p>\n<p>No.<\/p>\n<p>Let it make a fucking tsunami.<\/p>\n<p>p.s. \u00a0Maria is the Southeast Michigan regional organizer for We the People Michigan. She immigrated to the U.S. from Mexico when she was nine years old and grew up Southwest Detroit and Dearborn. Maria has been fighting for immigrant justice for almost a decade, including grassroots organizing and political advocacy. She works closely with grassroots organizations to create alternative systems of immigrant-centered support and working to put people of color and women in positions of leadership. Maria graduated from the University of Detroit Mercy with a degree in English, and then went on to get a Masters of Social Work at the University of Michigan. On her free time Maria likes going for hikes, drinking expensive tea, and trying to publish her poetry.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Pre-note: In the last three decades or so, a new theory for identifying \u00a0human life on an archaeological site treats the organic remains of flowers at a burial site as more compelling evidence of humanity than finding tools on the &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/sites.udmercy.edu\/poetry\/2019\/05\/03\/may-3-what-it-means-to-be-catholic-when-youre-a-young-liberal-feminist\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":139,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[11641],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sites.udmercy.edu\/poetry\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3015"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sites.udmercy.edu\/poetry\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sites.udmercy.edu\/poetry\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sites.udmercy.edu\/poetry\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/139"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sites.udmercy.edu\/poetry\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3015"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/sites.udmercy.edu\/poetry\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3015\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3016,"href":"https:\/\/sites.udmercy.edu\/poetry\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3015\/revisions\/3016"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sites.udmercy.edu\/poetry\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3015"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sites.udmercy.edu\/poetry\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3015"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sites.udmercy.edu\/poetry\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3015"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}